Category: How To’s

Forget changing him/her

Both parties in relationships have ‘things’ or behaviors that each wish the other would change. But let’s face it, some things will never change. The most effective and successful option is ‘forgiveness’. Learn to forgive and let it go.

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Things women do that freak men out

Female habits that really freak men out according to Glamour Magazine: Women wearing uncomfortable shoes. Doing sad things on purpose. Reading your guy’s horoscope. Asking hypothetical questions. Making the bed.

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First Date Checklist

Do 12 out of 12 and you got a chance! Be yourself Carry gum, Altoids, etc. Use etiquette Dress with finesse/thought/pride Confirm the night before Make the offer to pay Take the focus off yourself Listen Make eye contact Know where you parked your car Know current events Keep off topics of Politics, Sex, Religion

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Let me out – It’s time to move on!

The warning signs: You fight over nothing. You’re not as affectionate. You don’t see what you ever saw in this person. You decide all your friends were right and you were wrong. If there ever was sex, it’s stopped. More time passes between dates. There are longer and longer silences. You are more tempted by […]

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How do you know it’s Love?

Here are the ‘tells’ You actually want to meet the parents. You’re willing to explain why you don’t want to date others. You’ll ditch your little black book. You breathe easier when he/she is around. You hum love songs under your breath. You’re full of energy. You’re willing to go somewhere you hate. You’re willing […]

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Things to do after dinner at home

The course of the dinner will determine the course of the evening, but here are some things to cover some gaps when you need to cover gaps. Taste different chocolates or wines Play 20 questions Listen to an old radio show or audio book Play Truth or dare Listen to your favorite music Give a […]

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When it’s time to share personal stuff…

You will know when it’s time to share information, and here is a list to get you started, or to drop in a hat and each pick one (or a few) out to share. When was the first time you kissed someone and what was it like? Have you ever had any brushes with death? […]

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1st Date Thoughts

I think a good first date doesn’t have to involve the typical “dinner and a movie”. It’s important that the date include time to get to know each other (that is, talking/conversation time) and a movie just doesn’t lend that kind of time. Dinner is good but it can be a little formal. I think […]

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Romantic Poem 3

To:_____________(her name) Some girls are nice, Some girls are “Sweet,” And some are “Dear as can be.” And once in a great while, a girl like _____(her name) comes along, Who happens to be “All Three!”

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Romantic Poem 2

To:______________(her name) I’ll tell you my fantasy, it’s an evening for two, anywhere…with you.

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